To tell the honest truth 2010 sucked. Looking back there were way too many terrible things my loved ones and I had to endure.Without going into detail of how absolutely terrible this year has been, I urge you readers to take that proverbial step on that figurative road called our future with a positive outlook.
To start out 2011, please make that new years goal. Do not make it quickly without thought. Really think of something you want in life (not a coach bag or those high red patent leather pumps at Aldo for $700) but something that allows you to become a better you and grow from the inside out. The second part to this is: DO IT. Work towards it. What is stopping you from doing what you truly want in life? So take those New Year Goals and cash them in!
I implore you to learn something new this year. Whether it be one amazing thing that changes your views of the world or many little nuggets of general knowledge that make you a pro at trivia night; learn as much as you can.
Next, pick your battles. When you have obstacles in life look at the big picture, it'll help you decide how to over come them. For example, when you are arguing with a loved one about something small, whats the big picture? do you want to argue with that person or just be happy with them. Don't sweat the small stuff, enjoy being happy when you can, in every way that you can.
In the next year be sure to think of others. Think of who they are and how they feel. When you think of others and do something for someone else, even the smallest gesture or smile can brighten someones day. Think of a time when someone else did something small for you and made your day a bit brighter; do that for others.
Lastly, have fun. Enjoy yourself, spoil yourself, take time to give yourself the kind of pleasures you deserve.
One day this will all be over, and when you look back on your life and the things you have accomplished, will you be proud? Would you want your children (if not children, your dearest loved one) to live the life you have lead? That is the one thing I promise to myself; that I am proud and happy with my life in the past, present, and the most important the future.
good bye 2010!
goodnight world*
Just found your blog through PCJ and found it amusing how similar our current situations are. I, too, graduated with my degree in May 2010 and then proceeded to move back in with my mom (and stepdad). I'm now working part time as a cashier, but I feel somewhat unappreciated and in considering my options have decided to follow my passion for travel, culture, language, people, and service to the Peace Corps. I'm hoping to start off 2011 by hitting the submit button on my application within the first few days of the new year.
ReplyDeleteHave you started your application yet? It seems like we could be on track to be able to compare timelines if you have. If you haven't, good luck! It certainly never hurts to start it, even while unsure.
If you want to see my blog as I go through the process, it's at dreamoflifelived.wordpress.com
i did start my application. i just need letters of rec. and my essays and student loan info. then its the submit button for me too!
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